I had few relationships in the past and learned a lot of things! but unfortunately after every relationship I conclude one thing what you expect from others RARELY happens or they understand how you want the things to be. Both need to put an effort in it. No matter how hard you try and what amount of effort you put in a relationship if its not working and your partner is not happy trust me its time to MOVE ON. You're wasting yourself and your time. Space, Time, Trust, Freedom, Originality, Honesty are the components of a relationship which make it LASTING. Try to accept the person they are instead of dragging the relationship in a pursuit that in coming future I will try changing my partner. Accept them the way they are otherwise walk away because no one has the right to make ones life miserable or turn it into a nightmare which they expected to be a fairytale. Girls and Guys do not settle for anything other than respect. If your partner respects you it eventually means they care for you, they respect you because they love you and don't wanna make you feel low or shitty. And kiddos don't fight over little issues like "falling asleep in night while texting" your partners just doesn't wants to end the conversation. They are so much into you that they can't help themselves. GROW UP AND GIVE YOUR PARTNER THE SPACE AND AIR TO LIVE WITH THEIR FREEDOM INSTEAD OF BURDENING THEM WITH THE FEAR OF YOUR ANGER AND DISAPPOINTMENTS. YOU CAN BE IN THEIR SHOES TOO!
If your woman/man is not able to accept your quirks, they aren't worth your time and love. Let them go! And seriously people no such thing as PERFECT RELATIONSHIP or PERFECT COUPLE exists. Ups and downs, fights, arguments, differences are everywhere. Don't cherish what you haven't seen in depth. Always tell your partner how you feel, that they are in your heart, you are thinking about them and you want to be with them! This will to only make their day but also help your relationship in a way that the other person tries to put more efforts later, you overcome your differences, you look past their flaws (only if they are true to you, not for flirts and time pass ). Always pay attention to how they treat you, this will open you up to the reality that how they actually feel about you. And people Please, don't make yourself available for someone who doesn't appreciates your presence. DONT GIVE THEM THE SATISFACTION THAT YOU'LL BE ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM. You are giving them bullets to shoot you again and again and you end up being hurt. Build up your walls and your standards. Don't become a part time object! VALUE YOUR FUCKING SELF, BECAUSE IF NOT TO THEM YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO MANY OTHER PEOPLE WHO ONLY WANT TO SEE YOU SMILING AND HAPPY.
If your partner is proud to have you, takes every risk and does everything possible for them to be with you don't let them go. Try and try hard to make it work instead of letting one mistake ruin what you had and what you could have. You don't know how amazing you can be. You don't even know what the future partner is going to be like. Take chances, but don't regret them. Because if you don't take risks you may regret later in your future thinking I wish I had done this, things might have been different. There is just no turning back of time
Always believe in yourself, if your partner points out flaws in you, taunts you over your mistakes trust me fault isn't in you its in them . Didn't they see it earlier? Didn't they notice all his before holding your hand and making promises? DONT BE EASY, DONT FALL FOR THEIR WORDS. I REPEAT " PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR ACTIONS" Listen to your partner, speak to them about the problems your facing regarding them without OFFENDING THEM or MAKING THEM FEEL LOW. If you can't do that you are free to go. Because to PRETEND is the cruelest thing you can do your loved ones.
Here is a little piece of advice for boys and girls who actually don't take all the heartbreaks and breakups seriously "Don't say I love you if you don't mean it. for your partner its a promise try to honor it".
I will be writing more and more. And I hope I can help you in some way.
p.s I am just a beginner at blogging.
If your woman/man is not able to accept your quirks, they aren't worth your time and love. Let them go! And seriously people no such thing as PERFECT RELATIONSHIP or PERFECT COUPLE exists. Ups and downs, fights, arguments, differences are everywhere. Don't cherish what you haven't seen in depth. Always tell your partner how you feel, that they are in your heart, you are thinking about them and you want to be with them! This will to only make their day but also help your relationship in a way that the other person tries to put more efforts later, you overcome your differences, you look past their flaws (only if they are true to you, not for flirts and time pass ). Always pay attention to how they treat you, this will open you up to the reality that how they actually feel about you. And people Please, don't make yourself available for someone who doesn't appreciates your presence. DONT GIVE THEM THE SATISFACTION THAT YOU'LL BE ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM. You are giving them bullets to shoot you again and again and you end up being hurt. Build up your walls and your standards. Don't become a part time object! VALUE YOUR FUCKING SELF, BECAUSE IF NOT TO THEM YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO MANY OTHER PEOPLE WHO ONLY WANT TO SEE YOU SMILING AND HAPPY.
If your partner is proud to have you, takes every risk and does everything possible for them to be with you don't let them go. Try and try hard to make it work instead of letting one mistake ruin what you had and what you could have. You don't know how amazing you can be. You don't even know what the future partner is going to be like. Take chances, but don't regret them. Because if you don't take risks you may regret later in your future thinking I wish I had done this, things might have been different. There is just no turning back of time
Always believe in yourself, if your partner points out flaws in you, taunts you over your mistakes trust me fault isn't in you its in them . Didn't they see it earlier? Didn't they notice all his before holding your hand and making promises? DONT BE EASY, DONT FALL FOR THEIR WORDS. I REPEAT " PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR ACTIONS" Listen to your partner, speak to them about the problems your facing regarding them without OFFENDING THEM or MAKING THEM FEEL LOW. If you can't do that you are free to go. Because to PRETEND is the cruelest thing you can do your loved ones.
Here is a little piece of advice for boys and girls who actually don't take all the heartbreaks and breakups seriously "Don't say I love you if you don't mean it. for your partner its a promise try to honor it".
I will be writing more and more. And I hope I can help you in some way.
p.s I am just a beginner at blogging.
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