Going Through a BreakUp?

Hey!
Going through a breakup, divorce, separation has never been easy if you were the only one making efforts to make it work. After a breakup one goes through a depression for a long time. Feeling empty and hollow! its like you don't want to do anything, talk to no one, eat nothing, and you are merely living. You can't show it to some people how you feel because you are scared of being judged or burdening them with your feelings. Its very difficult if you expected a lot and you weren't considered worth enough to be fought for. And sometimes what pisses you off is people don't really understand how you feel and what you want. Well, only those people understand who have been through such an awful situation and the ones who really feel for you, care for you! You'll feel like exploding on every little mistake your friend does or something wrong that you sibling has done. you feel like shouting, breaking face and leaving them all alone and walking away from this world. its hard! its hard because you wanna rush back to your loved ones, its hard because you cannot decide whats wrong for you and whats right. its even harder when you can't decide who is important your self respect, yourself or the presence of your partner! You can't believe how everything perfect changes in a day. you can't look back on the day to  see from where did it all started changing? obviously it didn't change in a second before breakup. this has been going on for long. But unfortunately you were so busy in love you couldn't see it coming you didn't expect it from a person who promised to hold your hand forever, in your rough and tough times. He changed, he left! now he says THINGS ARENT WORKING OUT ANYMORE, I THINK WE NEED A BREAK or whatsoever excuse your partner make. Like why aren't they working? where have you fucked up? and even if you did you can work it out. at least  let you know your mistake, where you are wrong. Give you a chance? Why do we always need to think "Things aren't working out?" why not to think " How to make things work between you? Work on your relationship before you decide to give up on your partner and regret for a lifetime .
Well, girls if you partner does so trust me you got a chance. because a person who doesn't know how to appreciate your presence, be thankful enough for the efforts you make to impress him or make him happy and whatever you do for the sake of your relationship even if your are giving up your friends and lifestyle then he isn't worth it! if you partner isn't proud to have you, feels no pride when you walk with hi, doesn't cherish the moment you spend with him do YOU  really think in future he will prove to be a good husband? A loyal partner? will he understand you? stand through your thick and thin? wipe away your tears and pain?
so the answer is negative NO!
HE WONT!
If he isn't doing that why should you waste yourself being with him? why not move on? wait for perfect one and improve yourself too. learn new stuff? Live a life of freedom without having the burden of always being perfect for your loved ones and doing anything which makes you happy but disappoints him? Live Freely!
You were born free not a prisoner.
You feel like drowning ? heart beat slowing down? you feel like standing alone? Mind is consumed of doubts whether you aren't good enough or where do you lack? you feel like crying and crying? you want to die from a heart break?
every inch of your body is aching. you want to give up on everything! get rid from this world , build your own people free world! your dying inside!
afraid? shattered?
Don't be!
if you won't learn to stand up for yourself you won't be able to do anything! time changes everything. yes it does. if you think thats wrong its because you are not ready to accept the change your stuck there. you don't have a will to move on.
time is hard for you and gets harder when you have no one to listen to you :/ it is so I know!
Girls, there was life you were living before him and you will continue to live after him! after him how you will live is what you will decide? A heartbreak doesn't have to control all your life decisions!
Decide for yourself. Appreciate everything you have because trust me some people out there are not wishing for a guy, a perfect relationship but a life you have! Be thankful to your lord for all the blessings, you parents, friends, family and everything around you. consider how'd your life be if these all weren't there?
Start enjoying every moment of your life. Who cares if he isn't there. who cares if he doesn't complements you? free yourself from worldly appreciations.
you're tired! take a lot of sleep. wake up! take shower :) bath. go out with your friends. the best idea is going for a movie. go to some amusement park . *roller coaster* go for shopping. eat and eat a lot. don't miss ice cream!
you'll have to bring it all from inside. you will have to change the situation you've created around yourself
Get up!
tell the world and tell him what he lost?
be happy tell him your happiness didn't depend on him. don't show him that you're sad, unhappy and dying without him. trust me this won't bring them back. you'll be pushed miles away! people love watching you suffer. they take advantage of it. don't give them your weakness!

Girls get ready, style up. go out! socialize. increase the number of your friends. party hard! do all the crazy, stupid and childish stuff you want to. dream high at least not for a guy. give it some time and space. give time to yourself. most important of all. change your music! stop listening to all those depressing songs. okay? stop posting those depressing photos! stop cherishing the couples :/ and don't ever search for depressing blogs. encourage yourself for better. better tomorrow!

i will be writing more and better :*
I hope i tried to help you. and reading this will encourage you somehow :)
xoxox
my prayers are with you :D

Watch Any Movie or Season FREE!

Watching movies online is quite a hassle. The buffering speed and most importantly you have to pay for it. But now thats in not at all going to be Problem. So far I have come up with two of the best links to watch your favorite online movies and Complete seasons. And trust of me good quality. You' ll find latest movies and can search for the older ones. Animated Movies are also on the site!

1. Film2k.net

So I have been using this website from the couple of months to watch all the latest moves. The best part is I don't have to wait long too for them to buffer. The speed and quality of movies is satisfactory! And also that I have been watching my favorite season GOSSIP GIRL on it. Its complete and trust me quality is amazing! Once you use this site and it satisfies you, you will no longer worry about watching latest movies.


2. Onlinemovies.pro

The best part of this site is as you can see the bottom right you can request the movies if you haven't found the link on the site. Movies that I don't find on FILM2K.NET I  find here and thats for sure.


Now you will not have to pay for watching movies, wait long for them to buffer, surf sites to find a good link to watch movie, worry about picture and sound quality. Watching movies is now Free and EASY. Without any daily, weekly or monthly charges. You don't need to sign. You don't need any subscription to watch movies online. These sites are there for you! And are the best links to watch your favorite Hollywood movies regardless of their category.

Enjoy your movies. And let me know :)
xoxo

How to make Your Relationship Work!

I had few relationships in the past and learned a lot of things! but unfortunately after every relationship I conclude one thing what you expect from others RARELY happens or they understand how you want the things to be. Both need to put an effort in it. No matter how hard you try and what amount of effort you put in a relationship if its not working and your partner is not happy trust me its time to MOVE ON. You're wasting yourself and your time. Space, Time, Trust, Freedom, Originality, Honesty are the components of a relationship which make it LASTING. Try to accept the person they are instead of dragging the relationship in a pursuit that in coming future I will try changing my partner. Accept them the way they are otherwise walk away because no one has the right to make ones life miserable or turn it into a nightmare which they expected to be a fairytale. Girls and Guys do not settle for anything other than respect. If your partner respects you it eventually means they care for you, they respect you because they love you and don't wanna make you feel low or shitty. And kiddos don't fight over little issues like "falling asleep in night while texting" your partners just doesn't wants to end the conversation. They are so much into you that they can't help themselves. GROW UP AND GIVE YOUR PARTNER THE SPACE AND AIR TO LIVE WITH THEIR FREEDOM INSTEAD OF BURDENING THEM WITH THE FEAR OF YOUR ANGER AND DISAPPOINTMENTS. YOU CAN BE IN THEIR SHOES TOO! 
If your woman/man is not able to accept your quirks, they aren't worth your time and love. Let them go! And seriously people no such thing as PERFECT RELATIONSHIP or PERFECT COUPLE exists. Ups and downs, fights, arguments, differences are everywhere. Don't cherish what you haven't seen in depth. Always tell your partner how you feel, that they are in your heart, you are thinking about them and you want to be with them! This will to only make their day but also help your relationship in a way that the other person tries to put more efforts later, you overcome your differences, you look past their flaws (only if they are true to you, not for flirts and time pass ). Always pay attention to how they treat you, this will open you up to the reality that how they actually feel about you. And people Please, don't make yourself available for someone who doesn't appreciates your presence. DONT GIVE THEM THE SATISFACTION THAT YOU'LL BE ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM. You are giving them bullets to shoot you again and again and you end up being hurt. Build up your walls and your standards. Don't become a part time object! VALUE YOUR FUCKING SELF, BECAUSE IF NOT TO THEM YOU ARE IMPORTANT TO MANY OTHER PEOPLE WHO ONLY WANT TO SEE YOU SMILING AND HAPPY. 
If your partner is proud to have you, takes every risk and does everything possible for them to be with you don't let them go. Try and try hard to make it work instead of letting one mistake ruin what you had and what you could have. You don't know how amazing you can be. You don't even know what the future partner is going to be like. Take chances, but don't regret them. Because if you don't take risks you may regret later in your future thinking I wish I had done this, things might have been different. There is just no turning back of time 
Always believe in yourself, if your partner points out flaws in you, taunts you over your mistakes trust me fault isn't in you its in them . Didn't they see it earlier? Didn't they notice all his before holding your hand and making promises? DONT BE EASY, DONT FALL FOR THEIR WORDS. I REPEAT " PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR ACTIONS" Listen to your partner, speak to them about the problems your facing regarding them without OFFENDING THEM or MAKING THEM FEEL LOW. If you can't do that you are free to go. Because to PRETEND is the cruelest thing you can do your loved ones. 
Here is a little piece of advice for boys and girls who actually don't take all the heartbreaks and breakups  seriously "Don't say I love you if you don't mean it. for your partner its a promise try to honor it".


I will be writing more and more. And I hope I can help you in some way. 
p.s I am just a beginner at blogging. 

Movies you must watch

1. White House Down

John Cale (Channing Tatum), hero of the movie, is a police officer who goes to White House for a job he has always dreamed to protect president but unfortunately he gets rejected due to his past working history. John doesn't wants to tell this to his daughter and disappoint her so he decides to take his daughter on a tour of White House. While being here, Johns daughter Emily Cale (Joey King) goes to washroom White House is attacked by a heavily armed group of people and seizes the control. Due to supply of heavy ammunition and missiles the group successfully fights with the security and armed forces. now its John, in whose hands is the survival of his daughter and most importantly the president, James Sawyer (Jamie Foxx). Story revolves around these three characters of the movie and is catchy one with action that thrills you and gains your attention makes it a must watch. I personally want every action lover to watch this movie. The movie is undeniably exciting!


2. Taken 3

The ex-goverment operative Bryan Mills ( Liam Nesson) is accused of murdering his ex-wife Lenore. CIA,FBI and police all are in pursuit of capturing Mills when he manages to escape from them and begins the search of finding the actual murders of his wife, who has been brutally murdered. for this and last time Mills is going to use his particular skills in finding the real killers. Now he aims for the revenge of his wifes murder and to protect the only left most important thing in his life, his daughter Kim (Maggie Grace). the movie is enjoyed in its own cheesy way.


3. Night Crawler

After watching this movie you may for once think that everything in life is easy and doesn't needs particular skills or a degree but trust me that isn't important. everything in life is hard and hardest if you have no experience in it. Night crawler revolves around a jobless guy who is finding a job to make his living. but one night writes down the fate of his coming days when he sees the way to make his life better with a job that can earn him a lifestyle one always wanted. Louis Bloom (Jake Gyllenhaal) has survived all the petty thefts and now starts a new career as a cameraman. as a beginner he starts with a low quality camcorder and a police scanner. Now as the title gives you the actual meaning NIGHT CRAWLER, Louis forays in the streets of Los Angles in search of crime scenes. After appreciating Louis's first video if the crime the director Rene now offers him to pay heavy money in exchange of videos which can increase the ratings of her channel. Louis in the greed of money becomes selfish and sacrifices the life f his partner after which he establishes his own new agency and reaches the lengths of success he always wanted to.


4. Fury

With killer courage, Brad Pitt and Shia Labeouf have the courage of playing the role of a dauntless solider. Such movies of war is what are no more produced and these movies have always captured my attention and makes them appealing to me more than move of any other genre. Based in the days of 1945, April during World War 2 when the American soldiers are heavily outnumbered and engage in a deadly mission with the Nazis behind the enemy lines. Outnumbered and outgunned crew of five armed soldiers on the command of sergeant Wardaddy (Brad Pitt) and a rookie solider face overwhelming odds with their heroic attempts to defeat the enemy in the centre of Germany. this movie engages its audiences far more than they might have expected.