Harsh Realities: Navroz and Fatima

We Pakistanis entitle ourselves to be nationals of an Islamic State. But do we truly follow the teachings of Islam or even care to convey the basics for living a normal life to our children. Quran, a universal book of guidance which is the complete code of life, a Holy Book where you can find answers to every problem do we tell our children what Allah has commanded us to do and what He expects us to do? What are the obligations on us as a Muslims?  Do we really care to explain the Sunnah, difference between Haram and Halal to our children? I don’t think we Pakistanis are really keeping up with the titleof being Nabis Ummah. Why each time blame India and media when we are the ones to be accused, when we are the ones who have errors and when we are ones who are too busy in our lives to even impart the teachings to our youngsters about the morals and ethics. Besides always being unavailable to the children at the times while they need our attention the most and expect us to be most responsive in the issues concerning them,   we also have started to embrace this thinking that schooling is enough for a child to mug up the whole ball of wax, too much power of western culture. Too much of space even abandons you and too much of boundaries even are no less than a prison. Meanwhile in Germany, a girl fought hard enough for her rights and for separate identity as Muslim and to be allowed to wear a Hijab during school hours and our kids here in Pakistan are actually slaying each other just because their parents are not letting them marry each other. Oh well, let’s not forget to mention what’s their age, Navroz is 16, while the girl Fatima is 15. The guy stated in his letter which he wrote before attempting suiciding that he desired to marry the love of his life but his parents are not permitting him so he is going to kill her and shoot himself too so that if not in this world may be in afterlife they live together. Oh, I assume they were thinking that when we’ll die we’d be holding hands and angles will be taking us and we’d be flying in the skies. Well that’s not how it really happens. WOW! That may be inspired by some Indian movie, I think Ishqzaade but where were their parents? When he talked to them why didn’t they really take some action? What’s better losing your son and daughter forever or just teaching them few morals and telling them to fear Allah since this life is His gift to and one day by His will we’ll have to return? Didn’t they know what would happen when they’d suicide? Fault is not only in watching Indian movies, I think it’s our media too, which is giving exposure to the bogus traditions and culture which are no way a part of us. Nobody ever speaks for what is being shown in our movies, dramas, and adds? Everyone may criticize Veena , Meera, Mona Lisa for working in Indian Film Industry but no one would have courage to stand and speak that whats happening in our fashion shows? What sort of vulgar fashion is being promoted in our society? What about Mehwish Hayats Item song? What about Mathira? What about Ayesha Omar? For God’s sake when will this society really learn and speak against the evils?

The duty no matter what lies on the shoulders of parents and elders at home, it’s just not about good schooling, teachers or achieving straight A’s. Sometimes we really need to ponder where is our life going? What is that you have done and you don’t want to do it again? What is that you don’t want others to do and suffer? How would you teach your younger siblings? What changes do you need to bring in your daily routine? I don’t ask anyone to become a Mullah, since I am not but I do say that at least don’t do anything which is forbidden and surely has terrible consequences. Please learn about haram and halal. Such cases are like emergency calls for parents who need to turn back to their children and bring them on the track.

Here are the picture of Navroz and Fatima after suicide:

At the end I'd like to say that you may or may not agree with me, you may have different and better reasons, or however you feel, please pray for their departed souls I think that's the best we can do. And don't forget all those people who are struggling through much more hard consequences. Pray for everyone, you might be a help for someone. 

Quranic Verse 1: "Don't kill yourself. No doubt Allah (swt) is merciful and anyone who does so, will be pushed in fire. And it is easy for Allah (swt)." (Nisa: 4:29, 4:30)

Quranic Verse 2: "We are property of Allah (swt) and we will return to Allah (swt) one day." (Baqra 2:156)

Quranic Verse 3: "Don't' kill yourself with your own hands" (Baqra 2:195)

Hadith No.1: "Whoever kills himself with an iron weapon, he will be tortured in hell with the same weapon". (Bokhari)

Hadith No.2: "Whoever strangles himself with a rope, he will keep on strangling himself until being burnt in hell. And he who killed himself with a spear, he will keep on being killed by spear until he is sent to hell." (Bokhari)

Don't be a puppet

You can't be tamed losers. Get a life

Movies to Watch (List 2)

So here comes another list of movies that I recently watched 

I am a movie freak besides being Instagram and Snapchat freak! I love watching movies like anything and in a day I almost watch 2 to 3 movies. You must be wondering how do I spare much time? The answer to this is that since now I'm on my vacations for a long time and I don't have any assignments pending I can sit back and do whatever I want to. So I decided to watch movies. And what type of movies I watch totally depends on my mood. And not to forget this is the only time of year when I can invest my time wherever I want to without the stress of losing something or even wasting it. The bad part is it flies so early I don't even realize it.
Oh we are getting off the topic! so we've to discuss movies
Here is the list of the movies I watched.Some might be a complete waste of time though.

1. Changeling

I don't usually like watching such movies, in which all you have to do is cry. But this movie was really moving and no one for sure can doubt the acting of Angelina Jolie. This movie is based on a real story of a son and a mother. I won't disclose the story you have to watch it. I am just telling you, that in the whole movie you'll be hoping for something and you'll be in a constant state of mystery. Enjoy!

                                                  

2. Prisoners

This is another mystery movie which will speak for itself. I mean you'd pushed so much into the movie that eventually you'll want the mystery to be solved. It is also based on the theme of parents and children. But there is another major mystery going on too. Its a pretty long movie. One thing about this movie is that I couldn't agree with how it ends. You watch it once and you'll understand why. And not to forget who are the actors of this movie, Jake Gyllenhaal and Hugh Jackman.

                                                 


3.The Holiday 

Whenever I can't figure out which movie to watch I just enter Cameron Diaz in google and look for all the movies that I haven't watched. Not a single one of her movie that I have watched is every boring or makes me regret. But this movie "The Holiday" actually is the best of all the movies I have watched. It is just so amazing and no wonder I'd want my love story to be like this one. As the name suggests The Holiday so its based on the season of holiday. As the movie begins you might not like and don't feel like watching it. But give it some time. Don't rush! That's what I did. In the very beginning I was like it makes no sense but by the time I was drawn into the movie. This story revolves around two girls both facing heart breaks. So do watch it and enjoy your vacations. Well, besides Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet is the other lead actress in the movie.

                                           


4. Forgetting Sarah Marshall

So I recently watched this movie a day before. This movie is amazing. Like watch it. Usually girls are crying over breakups and boys are enjoying. But here the case is different. you'll be seeing a man crying so much over his girlfriend who dumped him for another guy and how constantly he keeps coming across her. Well, she actually did wrong. The point is will his girlfriend ever realize her mistake.

                                             

5. The Cabin in the Woods
According to Imdb this movie has a very good rating. Watched this movie last night. It is about 5 friends. Well, what you need to know is that if you have seen Saw then its similar to that besides Tobin Bell. After that movies seriously this guy seems to me like a creep. So I hate him. 5 friends are going for a stay in a country side house and a series of scary events happen. Well, will anyone ever find out the mystery of the cabin they are living in? The movie has no ending trust me. At least I didn't like it.

                                             


6. Easy A

Easy A is one of the movies which actually has no story for me. It's a pointless movie about a girl who is not noticed or even exists in her high school. To gain the attention she lies about something to her best friend just to compete. This lie is spread in the whole school including teachers. On the basis of this single lie, more incidents happen. Now her image in the school is no less than a slut. Watch it if you are too bored. That's for me. I actually wasted time on it.

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7. The Grey 

I was actually fasting on the day when I started watching this movie. It is the month of Ramadan so yeah! I know most of all will be judging me like oh movie in Ramadan God forbids. Get a life losers, if you are so concerned about sinning then just don't commit them rest of the year too. So getting back to the movie. I couldn't resist this movie. And honestly I like such movies which attract me towards them. Seriously whole time when I was watching the movie my mouth was open. I was in a state of shock. I loved it. Liam Nesson is the lead actor of this movie along with other men. He is a hired sniper killer by some oil company. His experience becomes the reason of survival! But will they all really survive?

                               


8. Thor: The Dark World

Chris Hemsworth is just so hot in this movie. I love him. I don't like watching movies like avengers, hulk and all this sort . I mean Sci-fi. But I don't even remember what made me watch this movie. I just started watching it and loved every bit of it. Not even for a second I got bored. And I love it how they have linked the two worlds. And how a king from another world falls in love with a normal girl. She actually helps him in a lot in defeating the devils. What help, who devils ? for that watch the movie. Just watch it once and you'll be loving it. Loved the plot, graphics, cast of the movie. And surely you'll be loving it too if you watch the movie.

                                


Watch the movies for free on the following sites:
Putlocker
Film2k


Let me know your feedback on these movies. And please suggest me some other movies as well!

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The wrong choices we make

Not in so many years have I ever looked back and seen what  I have turned into. and should I be really standing in the place I am and should I really become the person I am right now? What if I found someone who was exactly like me , with similar flaws, mistakes, dreams, and everything would I love or just even like that person and least of all in what category of friends would I place him/her? Such a question always remains and it will. No matter now how hard I try there are a few things I cant change. I cant stop them from shaping up my future and what people will say? For how long can one stay in the state of denial by saying that who cares? Truth is for a long time when you face a similar situation, you get similar remarks or you are taunted and made fun deep down inside your heart you do care. You just don't have tons of guts to accept that and show it. Inside you might be breaking but displaying that fake smile and so called rigidness on your face, and once when you are along you are so broken and shattered. So you do care! Don't lie about that. 

I also want to see and think that what sort of a person I have become but honestly speaking the thought of this even scares me because I know I will end regretting on all the wrong steps I took and moved in the wrong direction.I know I will end up crying and going made, being depressed, for sometime I will hate everything. This all scares me. So I don;t think about it, I don't want to think about all those people who took advantage of me, exploited me and like a foolish jerk I always was true to them even if I had some secrets or I lied my intention towards them was no wrong, Obviously there is one thing for sure I didn't want to cheat or take advantage of them I had reasons for everything, But it takes heart to understand the reasons to what you are doing. And there are some people no matter how much you explain and what you do for them they'll keep counting your mistakes and keep punishing you for them by their words and actions. Such people never understand. That;s actually what turned my happy life into a nightmare. Giving explanations and being tortured for my choices I made in my past and I wanted to make. No matter to some people I live or die, I destroy myself or burn they wanted things according to them. No matter what amounts of explanations I have and how hard I try to gain trust and make them feel like I am not back stabbing you, didn't matter at all. While I see some lucky people around me , unlike my story no matter what they do they are never questioned.
One thing after whatever happened I came to know that truth lies within this short phrase that there is a reason for everything. Yes, I have a firm belief in it. I may scared analyzing my life and my characters, and everything else about me but I know there is a reason I am here. I figured out one reason besides that it was my fate and destiny. That;s what people usually do and rely on when something goes wrong. I want it to be different. For me, not just saying, the shit I have been through for almost a year and longer you can say I realized the value of life, happiness. laughter and most of all freedom to be yourself where you are not scared to impress and to break someone else's heart. I cant take such responsibilities or at least handle that how would the never person feel? If I am not hurting them, like they are not at loss then why not do what I want? why do I fear to do anything I want to just because the person right next to you doesn't likes it? Why not? Your freedom and your well being your self respect they are some of many gifts from God which He gave to everyone when they are born. Its just up to us that much priority we give to these things, which most of the time are taken for granted.
My only point in this jumbled up conversation is that, don;t make any wrong choices just on the basis of some temporary happenings which you are not sure about and may lead you in a way where you cant find the way back! These wrong choices sometimes take your freedom away from you. they can make you lose your respect, honor, dignity and even the right to live your life your way. So cherish every moment you are spending with freedom. You don't know whats coming next.Just be happy and cherish all that you have.
And think twice before making any life time choices .

Reasons and Remedies of Dry Skin. Lets Combat it with Cheap Home Remedies!

I am a person who is really really irritated by one thing while doing makeup and that is the dry skin on my face. I don't want to use a primer every time i wear makeup I want it to go forever so my skin can look fresh and my applied base is smooth. Dry skin is a problem because whenever applying base dry skin forms patches which kind of ruins my makeup, I feel conscious because if you look from a distance that's fine but whenever someone comes near to me it becomes a problem. Dry patches give a rough look to my face, then I  find no point of wearing makeup.And I am trying to combat dryness from a long time. Trust me I have used well known brands that I don't want to mention for moisturizing my skin but none worked. It was just a waste of money. Moreover, when you're exposed to sunlight the situation becomes even worse.
But not only trying remedies, creams , medicine and going to doctors would work. I think its better if we find out why our skin gets dry. Usually people face it during winters and unfortunately I think there are many people out there who have dry skin during all the seasons. Summer or Winter doesn't matter. The skin is not only dry but it also gets rough and itchy. I hate it so much. And worst of all is that I took this issue lightly just as a gift of winters and it turned too serious because I almost got scars on my face, some little pimples and I am always scratching them. This can give me permanent marks. Well, what can I do that's what exactly happens. I want my skin to be clear and soft. First let it be dry-free then we will talk about fairness and getting rid of being tan.

So talking about what causes dryness on our skin doesn't literally means that its because of winters. NO! there are other plenty of reasons too. 

1. Too much exposure to sun can damage your skin. I know you enjoy the prolonged exposure sitting under sun but I think your skin should matter most. Prolonged exposure to sun can make your skin lose water and dehydrate it as a result of which your skin gets dry, and story doesn't ends here, wrinkles appear, it gets flaky.
2. During winters don't get too much time using indoor heating. Avoid that. Indoor heating leaves your skin dry, lips are chapped basically the mucous membrane under your skin is damaged.
3. I am the person who really loves doing it even in summers too. I love hot showers. And telling you one of weakness that might make you laugh out loud is that I am scared of cold water and I feel like I cant breathe and I am dying. As a result of which even in extreme temperature of summers I take hot showers. Now that's what I find another reason of my dry skin besides it being too much exposed to sunlight. I don't wanna look like an alligator and I hope you don't want that too. So lets skip this deadly combination for the sake of our skin and change our bathing habits.
4.We may buy a lot of moisturizers and other things. Waste money on shit that we don't even need. But we hardly make a routine of moisturizing our body on daily basis. Most of us don't do that. We don't skip eating or drinking water because we know we wont survive so our skin needs to survive too. Moisturize it besides eating a lot of junk food.
5. Sometimes we don't really consider the requirements of our skin and we go buy face wash, soaps , body washes that may be very effective on your best friends skin but on yours its too harsh. Choose your soaps and detergents according to your skin. Waste money on shit that's worth it .
6. Lack of water. This dehydrates your skin badly. You may not feel thirsty in winters as much as you do in summers but no where that means that your body is fasting and it doesn't needs water. Duh it needs same amount of water . Don't forget to drink loads and loads of water. Trust me if you make this habit you wont have to worry about your skin anytime. I bet you that . its the best cheapest and easiest solution to all the bullshit happening to our skins. It doesn't needs much effort you just need to carry a water bottle along all day. So your skin doesn't feels like a desert anymore!
7.Ah plis plis plis girls don't think scrubbing it the best solution. Gods sake you can use it after your forty's not now. Its just so not for you if you have a dry skin. It ruins it more. Don't scrub your skin in the hope of it getting better. Just don't rub it down .
8. You lose all the shower moisture once you rub off that towel hanging in your bath. No!
Don't do that again. It dries your skin .
9. Well since I am only 20 so I wont say ageing is a factor in my dry skin. But if you are growing old it can be another reason. Since your hormones are getting old.
10. Sometimes you love a shirt a lot. But isn't it that cloth which is causing irritation on your skin? Do see that .
11. Most important of all what if we talk about your health? How is it? What is your diet routine? What sort of food intake do you have? Healthy  Food? Or just living on Junk . Bro see that . its coming!


Now Lets Talk About Remedies.

Since I have already Discussed with you the reasons of dry skin you must have all figured out what to do and what not to do. But I think you must all need to know these following remedies to have a charming, young skin making you beautiful. Boys if you are reading it, then this is for you too well that's something else that you are handsome and not beautiful.

I already told you the Cheapest, Easiest and Fastest ( like 2 weak approximately) to improve your skin that's a challenge. If I lose then nothing k . That's is Drink 3 liters of Water Daily. And your skin is going to be transformed .


Y'all  have it in your home. Open your fridge and grab 2 . UM 2 what? 2 Eggs!  You need to mix Olive Oil and Egg Yolks together. Only a teaspoon of Olive oil will be enough. This is the second best rated remedy for combating dry skin


Mixture of Bananas mashed and some yogurt will form a paste. Apply this natures gift on your skin for almost half an hour and wash your skin.


Massage Almond oil on your skin for almost 5 minutes and then leave it on your skin for another 10 minutes. Wash it afterwards.

You can also apply only yogurt. Just massage it on your dry skin. Leave it for 10 minutes on your skin and then take a shower. It has a good amount of lactic acid which is usually an agent for battling against any germs attacking your skin. Use of yogurt soothes your skin.


Before hitting your bed and dozing off take out 10 minutes and apply coconut oil all over your dry skin and then you're allowed to go to a deep sleep. In the morning take a shower ( directions for shower have already been mentioned ) Make it your daily habit. It softens and soothes your skin!


Mix equal amount of glycerin and petroleum jelly and apply it on your dry skin. This is a perfect remedy for all sorts of dry skins and whatever caused it.


It has been told that exposure to sun can damage your skin. So before stepping out of your house apply sun block.. Also carry it with yourself .And apply it in loads of amount to avoid any sort of sun burn or other damage to your skin. Oh yes, if you don't have it in your house then its not a home remedy sorry.


Another simply remedy is the use of Aloe Vera. This plant is probably outside your home in your garden or just buy it. That's a cheap remedy too. But how to apply it. That mentioned below.

1. Cut open a fresh Aloe Vera leaf and squeeze the gel out of it.
2. Apply the gel on your dry skin. Let it sit for 10 to 15 minutes.
3. Rinse it off with lukewarm water.
4. Do this twice daily.

To restore your skin back in its normal condition you have to take care of yourself, find time from your busy schedule in most your cases you are just wasting your time. Just give it half an hour daily and your skin will be back in its perfect condition. Soft like a baby, Fresh, Dry skin also darkens your complexion. Just saying. It Just not you all who are lazy not trying out all this but all these advises are for me as well. I gotta do this all as well. And soon I  will be showing you a picture of my skin how it was and how it transformed after following the remedies. But most of all. For all the people I am emphasizing on one thing that is DRINK LOADS AND LOADS AND TONS OF WATER. 

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Simplest Hairdos in shortest time For Summers with Steps.

You are in rush and its some important event and you have already planned it last night to look different but don’t know what to do? I think it’s simple.

Who doesn’t wants to make simple hairstyles without getting their arm hurt trying and trying?

So let’s try something fresh and easy this time.
All girls will love it.

1.     1.   If you have medium to long hair this hairstyle will only take 5 minutes.

Follow the few easy steps:

Pull hair back into a low side ponytail just behind your ear and secure with an elastic.

Separate a 2-inch-wide section from the ponytail and braid it.

Pull the braid aside and wind the rest of the ponytail around its base. Anchor with hairpins.

Wrap the braid around the bun and pin the ends into the underside.

2.    Simple pinned hair





4. Sweeping Side Braid




5. Texture Half up




6. Headband bun




7. Just tie up your hair in a pony.
like just make a pony tail



8.Easy and stylish braided hair bun .
neither formal nor causal
you can carry this look with any occasion

The Romantic Comedy Movies YOU should NOT Miss! Must watch comedy movies. Movies you should watch with your loved ones .

I am a fan of watching movies but sometimes all I need to make my mood better is some comedy movie which has a bit of romance and love affair too. This is the best therapy!
Well, if you haven't watched these movies you must watch all of them and I am telling you , watching any of the movie wont make you think that you wasted your time or even the minute of it bores you to tears. Well that's not happening. Some of the movies are old but seriously i watched them now.
Here you go,
P.S I am not listing the movies according to their rating or my likeness. All of them are worth your precious time. 
If you miss these you'll miss a lot of laughter and wont be able to kick out the depression inside you. relive your mood and watch them . 



The Heat 
I must say its the funniest movie of the year. 





Love & Other Drugs (2010)
You know what attracts me towards this movie - Blue Eyes :')




 The Proposal (2009)
Being hard on outside but soft and kind inside. This might make you cry!




John Tucker Must Die (2006)
I was a kid when I first time watched this movie and I loved it then too 



 This Means War (2012)
The British Accent and those two hot , handsome men together . who would refuse to watch this movie. 
GIRLS YOU SHOULD WATCH. 




 The Other Woman (2014)
Cameron Diaz will make you laugh your ass off always. And no movie of her ever bores me 




Sex Tape (2014)
Cameron Diaz will make you love her even more 




Blended (2014)
Adam Sandler is cute , but I love him because he makes me laugh and fall for him just when he smiles 




Love, Rosie (2014)
Its more of a romantic movie. All the people who find it hard to express their feeling must watch it and learn some lesson before its too late guys :)




Wedding Date (2005)
Watch the movie and trust you wouldn't even let go off such a loving , caring and romantic and and seductive male escort. 





Dear Audiences, the list doesn't ends here. So many movies are missing that I didn't mention but I will be uploading another list soon, Please spread my blog I need more views. And keep commenting and telling me where I need to make improvements. Suggestions will be appreciated.

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