Hey!
Going through a breakup, divorce, separation has never been easy if you were the only one making efforts to make it work. After a breakup one goes through a depression for a long time. Feeling empty and hollow! its like you don't want to do anything, talk to no one, eat nothing, and you are merely living. You can't show it to some people how you feel because you are scared of being judged or burdening them with your feelings. Its very difficult if you expected a lot and you weren't considered worth enough to be fought for. And sometimes what pisses you off is people don't really understand how you feel and what you want. Well, only those people understand who have been through such an awful situation and the ones who really feel for you, care for you! You'll feel like exploding on every little mistake your friend does or something wrong that you sibling has done. you feel like shouting, breaking face and leaving them all alone and walking away from this world. its hard! its hard because you wanna rush back to your loved ones, its hard because you cannot decide whats wrong for you and whats right. its even harder when you can't decide who is important your self respect, yourself or the presence of your partner! You can't believe how everything perfect changes in a day. you can't look back on the day to see from where did it all started changing? obviously it didn't change in a second before breakup. this has been going on for long. But unfortunately you were so busy in love you couldn't see it coming you didn't expect it from a person who promised to hold your hand forever, in your rough and tough times. He changed, he left! now he says THINGS ARENT WORKING OUT ANYMORE, I THINK WE NEED A BREAK or whatsoever excuse your partner make. Like why aren't they working? where have you fucked up? and even if you did you can work it out. at least let you know your mistake, where you are wrong. Give you a chance? Why do we always need to think "Things aren't working out?" why not to think " How to make things work between you? Work on your relationship before you decide to give up on your partner and regret for a lifetime .
Well, girls if you partner does so trust me you got a chance. because a person who doesn't know how to appreciate your presence, be thankful enough for the efforts you make to impress him or make him happy and whatever you do for the sake of your relationship even if your are giving up your friends and lifestyle then he isn't worth it! if you partner isn't proud to have you, feels no pride when you walk with hi, doesn't cherish the moment you spend with him do YOU really think in future he will prove to be a good husband? A loyal partner? will he understand you? stand through your thick and thin? wipe away your tears and pain?
so the answer is negative NO!
HE WONT!
If he isn't doing that why should you waste yourself being with him? why not move on? wait for perfect one and improve yourself too. learn new stuff? Live a life of freedom without having the burden of always being perfect for your loved ones and doing anything which makes you happy but disappoints him? Live Freely!
You were born free not a prisoner.
You feel like drowning ? heart beat slowing down? you feel like standing alone? Mind is consumed of doubts whether you aren't good enough or where do you lack? you feel like crying and crying? you want to die from a heart break?
every inch of your body is aching. you want to give up on everything! get rid from this world , build your own people free world! your dying inside!
afraid? shattered?
Don't be!
if you won't learn to stand up for yourself you won't be able to do anything! time changes everything. yes it does. if you think thats wrong its because you are not ready to accept the change your stuck there. you don't have a will to move on.
time is hard for you and gets harder when you have no one to listen to you :/ it is so I know!
Girls, there was life you were living before him and you will continue to live after him! after him how you will live is what you will decide? A heartbreak doesn't have to control all your life decisions!
Decide for yourself. Appreciate everything you have because trust me some people out there are not wishing for a guy, a perfect relationship but a life you have! Be thankful to your lord for all the blessings, you parents, friends, family and everything around you. consider how'd your life be if these all weren't there?
Start enjoying every moment of your life. Who cares if he isn't there. who cares if he doesn't complements you? free yourself from worldly appreciations.
you're tired! take a lot of sleep. wake up! take shower :) bath. go out with your friends. the best idea is going for a movie. go to some amusement park . *roller coaster* go for shopping. eat and eat a lot. don't miss ice cream!
you'll have to bring it all from inside. you will have to change the situation you've created around yourself
Get up!
tell the world and tell him what he lost?
be happy tell him your happiness didn't depend on him. don't show him that you're sad, unhappy and dying without him. trust me this won't bring them back. you'll be pushed miles away! people love watching you suffer. they take advantage of it. don't give them your weakness!
Girls get ready, style up. go out! socialize. increase the number of your friends. party hard! do all the crazy, stupid and childish stuff you want to. dream high at least not for a guy. give it some time and space. give time to yourself. most important of all. change your music! stop listening to all those depressing songs. okay? stop posting those depressing photos! stop cherishing the couples :/ and don't ever search for depressing blogs. encourage yourself for better. better tomorrow!
i will be writing more and better :*
I hope i tried to help you. and reading this will encourage you somehow :)
xoxox
my prayers are with you :D
Going through a breakup, divorce, separation has never been easy if you were the only one making efforts to make it work. After a breakup one goes through a depression for a long time. Feeling empty and hollow! its like you don't want to do anything, talk to no one, eat nothing, and you are merely living. You can't show it to some people how you feel because you are scared of being judged or burdening them with your feelings. Its very difficult if you expected a lot and you weren't considered worth enough to be fought for. And sometimes what pisses you off is people don't really understand how you feel and what you want. Well, only those people understand who have been through such an awful situation and the ones who really feel for you, care for you! You'll feel like exploding on every little mistake your friend does or something wrong that you sibling has done. you feel like shouting, breaking face and leaving them all alone and walking away from this world. its hard! its hard because you wanna rush back to your loved ones, its hard because you cannot decide whats wrong for you and whats right. its even harder when you can't decide who is important your self respect, yourself or the presence of your partner! You can't believe how everything perfect changes in a day. you can't look back on the day to see from where did it all started changing? obviously it didn't change in a second before breakup. this has been going on for long. But unfortunately you were so busy in love you couldn't see it coming you didn't expect it from a person who promised to hold your hand forever, in your rough and tough times. He changed, he left! now he says THINGS ARENT WORKING OUT ANYMORE, I THINK WE NEED A BREAK or whatsoever excuse your partner make. Like why aren't they working? where have you fucked up? and even if you did you can work it out. at least let you know your mistake, where you are wrong. Give you a chance? Why do we always need to think "Things aren't working out?" why not to think " How to make things work between you? Work on your relationship before you decide to give up on your partner and regret for a lifetime .
Well, girls if you partner does so trust me you got a chance. because a person who doesn't know how to appreciate your presence, be thankful enough for the efforts you make to impress him or make him happy and whatever you do for the sake of your relationship even if your are giving up your friends and lifestyle then he isn't worth it! if you partner isn't proud to have you, feels no pride when you walk with hi, doesn't cherish the moment you spend with him do YOU really think in future he will prove to be a good husband? A loyal partner? will he understand you? stand through your thick and thin? wipe away your tears and pain?
so the answer is negative NO!
HE WONT!
If he isn't doing that why should you waste yourself being with him? why not move on? wait for perfect one and improve yourself too. learn new stuff? Live a life of freedom without having the burden of always being perfect for your loved ones and doing anything which makes you happy but disappoints him? Live Freely!
You were born free not a prisoner.
You feel like drowning ? heart beat slowing down? you feel like standing alone? Mind is consumed of doubts whether you aren't good enough or where do you lack? you feel like crying and crying? you want to die from a heart break?
every inch of your body is aching. you want to give up on everything! get rid from this world , build your own people free world! your dying inside!
afraid? shattered?
Don't be!
if you won't learn to stand up for yourself you won't be able to do anything! time changes everything. yes it does. if you think thats wrong its because you are not ready to accept the change your stuck there. you don't have a will to move on.
time is hard for you and gets harder when you have no one to listen to you :/ it is so I know!
Girls, there was life you were living before him and you will continue to live after him! after him how you will live is what you will decide? A heartbreak doesn't have to control all your life decisions!
Decide for yourself. Appreciate everything you have because trust me some people out there are not wishing for a guy, a perfect relationship but a life you have! Be thankful to your lord for all the blessings, you parents, friends, family and everything around you. consider how'd your life be if these all weren't there?
Start enjoying every moment of your life. Who cares if he isn't there. who cares if he doesn't complements you? free yourself from worldly appreciations.
you're tired! take a lot of sleep. wake up! take shower :) bath. go out with your friends. the best idea is going for a movie. go to some amusement park . *roller coaster* go for shopping. eat and eat a lot. don't miss ice cream!
you'll have to bring it all from inside. you will have to change the situation you've created around yourself
Get up!
tell the world and tell him what he lost?
be happy tell him your happiness didn't depend on him. don't show him that you're sad, unhappy and dying without him. trust me this won't bring them back. you'll be pushed miles away! people love watching you suffer. they take advantage of it. don't give them your weakness!
Girls get ready, style up. go out! socialize. increase the number of your friends. party hard! do all the crazy, stupid and childish stuff you want to. dream high at least not for a guy. give it some time and space. give time to yourself. most important of all. change your music! stop listening to all those depressing songs. okay? stop posting those depressing photos! stop cherishing the couples :/ and don't ever search for depressing blogs. encourage yourself for better. better tomorrow!
i will be writing more and better :*
I hope i tried to help you. and reading this will encourage you somehow :)
xoxox
my prayers are with you :D
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